Girlfriend Just Said She Wants to Get Married and Have Baby

I inquire myself the question, what if she bankrupt up with me tomorrow for some unkown reason. How would i feel? And to that i say i wouldn't feel anything, i dont think. But and then you never know how much yous love something until its gone.
My girlfriend of two months loves me and wants to marry me and have my babies(her verbal words) and i don't recollect im ready for all this commitment, i do call back i love her but not as much as she loves me.
And maybe some other thing I have idea about. She keeps telling me im perfect for her, or shes found her future married man and im thinking there: is she perfect for me?
My immediate answer isn't: YES YES Aye of course she is. So is that a problem?
She recently asked me the question: Every bit im your first existent person y'all've had sex activity with aren't you curious of what sex with anyone else is like?
My immediate answer was no because i hadn't idea almost it. Only i am now, and my answer might be possibly. But another question i have forming in my listen is what are relationships with another person similar? because i practice feel a connection with my girlfriend merely the trivial things make me think this won't work out long term similar she dreams. Such every bit painfully biting me when shes horny or that she sometimes slaps me (not that hard, just still hard plenty that im unhappy with it, ive told her equally much to no avail), or that sex tin can sometimes be unenjoyable this early on on in the relationship.

Sad for this long rant guys, whatsoever thoughts on the situation?

(Original post by Anonymous)
I inquire myself the question, what if she bankrupt upward with me tomorrow for some unkown reason. How would i feel? And to that i say i wouldn't feel annihilation, i dont call back. Merely then y'all never know how much you love something until its gone.
My girlfriend of ii months loves me and wants to ally me and have my babies(her exact words) and i don't recollect im ready for all this commitment, i do think i love her but not equally much every bit she loves me.
And maybe another thing I accept thought about. She keeps telling me im perfect for her, or shes constitute her future husband and im thinking there: is she perfect for me?
My immediate respond isn't: YES YES YES of course she is. So is that a problem?
She recently asked me the question: As im your first real person you've had sex with aren't you curious of what sex with anyone else is like?
My firsthand answer was no because i hadn't idea about it. Just i am now, and my answer might be peradventure. Merely another question i have forming in my heed is what are relationships with another person like? because i do experience a connectedness with my girlfriend but the petty things make me think this won't work out long term similar she dreams. Such as painfully bitter me when shes horny or that she sometimes slaps me (not that hard, simply still difficult plenty that im unhappy with it, ive told her as much to no avail), or that sexual activity tin sometimes exist unenjoyable this early in the relationship.

Sorry for this long rant guys, whatsoever thoughts on the situation?

Firstly, your title sounds really wrong.

Secondly, you demand to communicate all this with her, tell her she is coming on too strong. Don't argue or fight, only conversation with her nigh it and tell her what you've told us.

Title implies you're a *****

(Original postal service past Anonymous)
I enquire myself the question, what if she broke upwards with me tomorrow for some unkown reason. How would i feel? And to that i say i wouldn't feel annihilation, i dont recall. Merely then you lot never know how much you lot love something until its gone.
My girlfriend of two months loves me and wants to marry me and have my babies(her exact words) and i don't think im ready for all this commitment, i do think i love her just non as much every bit she loves me.
And perchance another thing I have idea near. She keeps telling me im perfect for her, or shes establish her future husband and im thinking there: is she perfect for me?
My immediate answer isn't: Yep Yes YES of course she is. So is that a problem?
She recently asked me the question: Equally im your first real person you've had sex with aren't you curious of what sex activity with anyone else is like?
My immediate answer was no considering i hadn't idea nearly it. But i am now, and my respond might be possibly. But some other question i have forming in my mind is what are relationships with another person like? because i do feel a connection with my girlfriend simply the little things make me think this won't work out long term like she dreams. Such every bit painfully biting me when shes horny or that she sometimes slaps me (not that hard, but still difficult enough that im unhappy with information technology, ive told her equally much to no avail), or that sex activity tin sometimes be unenjoyable this early on in the relationship.

Sorry for this long rant guys, any thoughts on the situation?

Just tell her while you savor her company you are not set for the marriage and babe talk anytime soon.

two months is 2 early mang....sentry out, she might plough out to be one of those infamous closet-psycho GF, especially since she asked if you were interested in havin sexual practice with other girls. You probably dodged a bullet in that location by saying no.

Yous might want to alter title to Girfriend of 2 months.....

She seems like she does not sympathize herself exactly either. You are nevertheless in the honeymoon menses of a human relationship where everything is hearts and flowers. Nobody talks like this and then early on. Simply tell her you are not ready for that kind of talk.

Yep just read my title, im a ***** hahaha
Girlfriend of two months thx
And cheers for the replies. Ill talk to her.

You're correct to feel like you lot are. She's beingness style too upfront and full on with you, style too speedily. You tin can't know anyone is correct for you for the rest of your life within two months!

An ex of mine said he loved me after a couple of months and I felt a petty weirded out just by that. Yous need to tell her that she's moving as well fast, that there'south no rush to speak well-nigh those things. Be honest that information technology'southward kind of freaking yous out and pushing you away. She needs to re-evaluate her actions and behaviour, but it seems similar she gets fastened to people very quickly. She may just exist madly in love with you but I've been there with a guy and I was non behaving like this girl is!

I had an ex who lost his virginity to me and he eventually wished to sleep with other women. Information technology may very well happen and it sounds similar you're not so sure about this girl anyway and that you don't click with her at all, so maybe information technology would exist best to terminate information technology earlier she gets a little too crazy.

(Original post by Bearding)
I inquire myself the question, what if she broke upwards with me tomorrow for some unkown reason. How would i feel? And to that i say i wouldn't feel anything, i dont think. But and then you never know how much you dearest something until its gone.
My girlfriend of two months loves me and wants to marry me and have my babies(her exact words) and i don't think im ready for all this delivery, i do think i love her simply not as much equally she loves me.
And maybe some other affair I take thought about. She keeps telling me im perfect for her, or shes establish her time to come husband and im thinking there: is she perfect for me?
My immediate answer isn't: YES Aye YES of course she is. So is that a problem?
She recently asked me the question: Equally im your first existent person y'all've had sexual practice with aren't yous curious of what sex with anyone else is like?
My firsthand reply was no because i hadn't thought nearly it. But i am at present, and my answer might exist maybe. But some other question i have forming in my listen is what are relationships with some other person like? considering i do feel a connection with my girlfriend simply the little things make me recollect this won't work out long term similar she dreams. Such as painfully biting me when shes horny or that she sometimes slaps me (not that hard, but still hard enough that im unhappy with it, ive told her as much to no avail), or that sex activity can sometimes be unenjoyable this early on in the relationship.

Pitiful for this long rant guys, any thoughts on the state of affairs?

Don't cord her along - that is a receipe for disaster

You have to find a fashion to discussion it to her that you lot aren't actually interested in marriage. You don't accept to say it to her straight, merely say something like 'I don't like union/I don't believe in marriage/don't see myself ever getting married' because you know, you don't have to have exactly the same opinions as her in life. I'm telling you lot, she may non like it but in the long run she will capeesh it more than. If you permit her believe that you may want to marry her at some point then she will begin to wait for a proposal from you and will after a while begin to push it on you. So if you Actually don't want it to happen, you need to find a mode to get the bulletin through to her that you are not into marrying her. I'm telling you, its worse to be led forth than to tell her the truth!

So merely tell her.

(Original post by laurawatt)
Yous might want to change championship to Girfriend of two months.....

yall make me laugh

(Original post by Anonymous)
I ask myself the question, what if she broke up with me tomorrow for some unkown reason. How would i feel? And to that i say i wouldn't feel annihilation, i dont think. But then you lot never know how much y'all love something until its gone.
My girlfriend of two months loves me and wants to marry me and take my babies(her exact words) and i don't think im ready for all this commitment, i practice recollect i love her just non as much as she loves me.
And maybe some other thing I have thought well-nigh. She keeps telling me im perfect for her, or shes found her futurity husband and im thinking in that location: is she perfect for me?
My immediate answer isn't: Yep YES YES of form she is. And so is that a trouble?
She recently asked me the question: Equally im your first real person you've had sex with aren't you curious of what sex activity with anyone else is like?
My immediate respond was no because i hadn't thought about it. Simply i am now, and my answer might be peradventure. But another question i have forming in my mind is what are relationships with some other person like? because i practise feel a connexion with my girlfriend but the lilliputian things make me think this won't work out long term like she dreams. Such every bit painfully biting me when shes horny or that she sometimes slaps me (not that difficult, but still hard enough that im unhappy with it, ive told her as much to no avail), or that sex can sometimes be unenjoyable this early on in the human relationship.

Sorry for this long bluster guys, any thoughts on the situation?

two months? You barely know each other mate. Of course your girlfriend wants to marry you and take babies, That's what happens when you like someone. two years isn't long plenty to know y'all want to commit to something so permanent similar union.

you wouldn't feel anything if she broke up with y'all? surely there's your reply, y'all're not really involved with this. information technology sounds like you like her as a friend and have sex with her, only not exactly head over heels near her. I personally don't think 2 months in is a weird time to talk near love, marriage etc it's just it only feels right when you're both crazy near eachother. otherwise it'south too much likewise soon and creepy. I know some people have committment issues and all that, but even so if you lot've met the person of your dreams, you can't even believe this wonderful person exsts, and then shouldn't you exist wanting to shout it from the rooftops correct at present? if not, when practice you think it's going to become passioante and deeply romantic? at 6 months, at 9 months, at 2 years? but not now??

this is a relationship experience as far as I can run into, merely information technology doesn't audio like how a potentially long-term human relationship should starting time. that'south just my opinion, and obviously I don't know exactly how you lot experience and wha's beteween you. perhaps i'm simply too passionate about things...

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She's not a "psycho" or any term people utilise these days. Two months into a relationship is definitely the honeymoon catamenia, she'south and then happy she's found someone who works for her, wants to spend all her time with you, gets butterflies when you lot come across each other, tin can only see your positive points at the moment. But this fades, not proverb it's a bad matter but the excitement will subside. You lot tin yet honey someone simply every bit much but information technology's more of a comfortable, homely feeling than an intense all-encompassing desire. She's just got overexcited and isn't really thinking about the bigger moving-picture show, you don't live together, you can't possibly know someone inside out in but 2 months, so I'd take everything she says with a pinch of common salt.
As a side notation you need to address the slapping situation again, it's not okay that she'due south ignoring your wishes and not respecting yous.

(Original mail past Anonymous)
I enquire myself the question, what if she broke upwards with me tomorrow for some unkown reason. How would i feel? And to that i say i wouldn't feel annihilation, i dont think. But so you lot never know how much you honey something until its gone.
My girlfriend of 2 months loves me and wants to marry me and have my babies(her verbal words) and i don't retrieve im ready for all this commitment, i exercise recollect i love her just non as much as she loves me.
And mayhap some other thing I take thought near. She keeps telling me im perfect for her, or shes found her futurity married man and im thinking in that location: is she perfect for me?
My immediate respond isn't: Yes Yes YES of class she is. So is that a problem?
She recently asked me the question: As im your first real person yous've had sex with aren't you curious of what sexual practice with anyone else is like?
My immediate answer was no considering i hadn't thought about it. Only i am now, and my answer might be maybe. But another question i accept forming in my mind is what are relationships with some other person similar? because i exercise experience a connection with my girlfriend only the little things brand me think this won't work out long term like she dreams. Such equally painfully biting me when shes horny or that she sometimes slaps me (not that difficult, merely still hard enough that im unhappy with it, ive told her as much to no avail), or that sex can sometimes be unenjoyable this early on in the human relationship.

Sorry for this long rant guys, any thoughts on the state of affairs?

Your Girlfriend is 2 months erstwhile?

You sound similar yous're a nice guy who will be easily manipulated past her in the long run.

When someone is in dearest, in the initial stages, some volition feel their life is complete and that they are bound to marry and accept kids with that person. At the terminate of the mean solar day, irregardless of if it's true or not, it's only words. Deportment and time will show whether you subscribe to that conventionalities once y'all get over your honeymoon period.

Girls are really starting young these days...

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